It’s a simple equation that results in big things. The real question is usually how do we get there? Let’s take a quick look at the rider who has had a traumatic experience and put ourselves in their shoes for a moment. How do we regain the confidence without taking YEARS of reconstructive lessons? How do we make sure that we can overcome this while continuing to stay economical?
If you have been this person you know that some individuals will look at you as an easy paycheck. No pressure, no challenge, just another lesson in their day. Others will over face you with challenges and mistake fear for confidence. Then there are those who will take the time to balance the challenge with the fear to create the confidence. These are the people worth their weight in gold – hard to find but worth holding on to.
In your search you have found that magical person who challenges you and works with the lack of confidence. How did this happen? Through Kindness, gradual shifts of control from trainer/instructor to rider, and increased knowledge. Remember the phrase “Knowledge is Power” – The more understanding, the more knowledge you have as a rider, the more confidence you will possess. Take the time to learn what went wrong and how to be proactive should the situation ever occur again.
If you have been this person you know that some individuals will look at you as an easy paycheck. No pressure, no challenge, just another lesson in their day. Others will over face you with challenges and mistake fear for confidence. Then there are those who will take the time to balance the challenge with the fear to create the confidence. These are the people worth their weight in gold – hard to find but worth holding on to.
In your search you have found that magical person who challenges you and works with the lack of confidence. How did this happen? Through Kindness, gradual shifts of control from trainer/instructor to rider, and increased knowledge. Remember the phrase “Knowledge is Power” – The more understanding, the more knowledge you have as a rider, the more confidence you will possess. Take the time to learn what went wrong and how to be proactive should the situation ever occur again.
